I honestly was thinking Obligation, has a better ring like you said and it makes them sound more unforgiving. Thank you ladies and gents

And Akari, my girlfriend's mother had something similar happen where her boss said he knew her from when she was a stripper (which wasn't true). It really sucked and she tried to fight it and they ended up just moving her location which was really fucking stupid. The whole thing was stupid.

But I'd definitely say that you should reach out, family or boyfriend because that is unacceptable for him to say that to you. And of course don't blame yourself for anything because it's him.